When Capacity Comes up short
I am joining up with Five Minute Friday
During Five Minute Friday, we are given a word prompt and free write for 5 minutes.
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This week’s word prompt is Capacity
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My mind has been juggling so many things: family, homestead, business dreams, financial stress, and creative projects. I fear my brain will overheat like a computer. At times, I wish my brain had the capacity to be ‘turned off’ with a switch like a computer so I can rest. That feeling of having no capacity left is heavy.
The Serenity Seeker inside me says, “Let’s take a gentle pause together for a moment. Breathe in deeply… and exhale slowly. You don’t need to solve everything right now; you just need to make space to be.” (Grounding and regulating are great tools to learn.) Then I can get back to my usual tool of making a list, organizing my thoughts and tasks by priority and urgency.
There are days when even the simplest tasks feel like mountains.
When the to-do list stares back like a silent critic.
When your heart wants to show up for everyone, but your energy quietly says, “not today.”
We live in a culture that praises productivity but rarely honors capacity, that invisible boundary between what we want to do and what we can do.
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The Truth About Capacity
Capacity isn’t fixed. It ebbs and flows like the tides.
Some days, we have room for deep conversations, creative projects, and giving our best to others.
Other days, just getting out of bed, making coffee, and breathing through the noise of our thoughts is enough.
And that’s okay.
Too often, we measure our worth by what we produce rather than how we nurture ourselves.
But when capacity comes up short, it’s not a failure; it’s a whisper from our body and mind asking for pause, rest, and renewal.
Learning to Honor Our Limits
Instead of pushing harder
Pause and ask, “What do I need most right now?”
Acknowledge: “My capacity is lower today, and that’s okay.”
Simplify: Focus on what truly matters, even if it’s just one small step.
Release guilt: You’re not lazy. You’re human.
Some seasons demand more of us than others — caregiving, grief, stress, illness, or simply burnout. In those seasons, gentleness isn’t weakness; it’s wisdom.
A Gentle Reminder
You are still worthy when you’re tired.
You are still enough when your capacity is small.
You are still deserving of love, rest, and grace — even on the days when you have nothing left to give.
When capacity comes up short, serenity begins with permission:
Permission to rest.
Permission to feel.
Permission to just be.
Let that be your act of self-love today.
Your heart is as wide as the sea.
Yet even the tide must rest, must be.
You pour and give, you plant and sow,
But even strong roots need time to grow.
Capacity isn’t lost, just thin.
A whisper saying, “Breathe again.”
Rest, refill, let stillness start,
And watch calm bloom inside your heart.
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